So, I know the last time I wrote a post was MONTHS ago. I apologize. Consistency is clearly lacking in some part of my brain. I promise I remember to brush my teeth twice (sometimes thrice!) a day and don't forget to put on shoes before I leave the house for work in the morning. I would like to once again say that I'm back! And ready to talk more about spinsterhood.
While I've been away, my frustrations with the opposite sex have been slowly piling up. I don't understand guys. I would call them men...but the guys I know are hardly men. They're slackers. They don't have any ambitions. They stay up until midnight and wake up past noon during the week. Sure, some of them go to school but for what? More and more these days I am noticing that it's no longer cool to want to have a successful career. Instead the act of obtaining knowledge is more important. I get it. You want to be smart. You want to explore the world, broaden your mind. Then what? Do you just sit around at coffee shops and wait for an unsuspecting victim to sit near you so you can then spew all of your wisdom into their coffee cup? This happened to me a while ago at Otherlands (coffees shop where I "people watch"). A hipster looking guy sat across from me at a big table and started talking to me out of nowhere. I had my headphones on...umm that usually means I don't want to be bugged/I'm working on something important. Anyway, he started talking to me and went on and on about society and how it needs to be changed and the environment is going to shit and this that and the other. After listening to him for about 30 minutes I said bluntly, "Ok, so what are you going to do about all that?" Silence. He didn't have an answer. Oh, I see. So you can dish it but you can't take it. You can go on and on and complain about how everything is going to shit around you, but you don't want to do anything to help. I'm encountering more and more guys who are like this. They're like activists without being active...they're lazy assholes. They go to school, acquire degrees and knowledge, and then don't do anything with it. Their parents must be so proud and crying into their pillows at night thinking about all the money they wasted trying to get their kids a higher education.
My dear friend Frances sent me a link to an article that kind of explores this concept of the lazy asshole. I found it very entertaining and it got me all riled up! I hope it riles you up! Next time you see a dumb hipster boy at the coffee shop reading Chekhov just do me a favor and kick his ass.
While I've been away, my frustrations with the opposite sex have been slowly piling up. I don't understand guys. I would call them men...but the guys I know are hardly men. They're slackers. They don't have any ambitions. They stay up until midnight and wake up past noon during the week. Sure, some of them go to school but for what? More and more these days I am noticing that it's no longer cool to want to have a successful career. Instead the act of obtaining knowledge is more important. I get it. You want to be smart. You want to explore the world, broaden your mind. Then what? Do you just sit around at coffee shops and wait for an unsuspecting victim to sit near you so you can then spew all of your wisdom into their coffee cup? This happened to me a while ago at Otherlands (coffees shop where I "people watch"). A hipster looking guy sat across from me at a big table and started talking to me out of nowhere. I had my headphones on...umm that usually means I don't want to be bugged/I'm working on something important. Anyway, he started talking to me and went on and on about society and how it needs to be changed and the environment is going to shit and this that and the other. After listening to him for about 30 minutes I said bluntly, "Ok, so what are you going to do about all that?" Silence. He didn't have an answer. Oh, I see. So you can dish it but you can't take it. You can go on and on and complain about how everything is going to shit around you, but you don't want to do anything to help. I'm encountering more and more guys who are like this. They're like activists without being active...they're lazy assholes. They go to school, acquire degrees and knowledge, and then don't do anything with it. Their parents must be so proud and crying into their pillows at night thinking about all the money they wasted trying to get their kids a higher education.
My dear friend Frances sent me a link to an article that kind of explores this concept of the lazy asshole. I found it very entertaining and it got me all riled up! I hope it riles you up! Next time you see a dumb hipster boy at the coffee shop reading Chekhov just do me a favor and kick his ass.